Really, this is some of the best advice!
If you don't schedule time to spend with your spouse, and that can be on all different levels (going out on a date, talking, watching a TV show together, intimacy, recreational activities etc.) it will just generally never happen. A little planning can go a long way. Sure, there can be spare of the moment moments and those are great! But if you are not a spare of the moment couple or one of you isn't, then it isn't going to keep your marriage going. If you aren't spending time with your spouse, if you are not doing what you need to be doing to keep this part of the marriage relationship alive and well, then the next best thing is to sit down together on a monthly basis, if not more and just schedule time in to spend together. If it sounds odd, give it a whirl for a few months and see how it goes, see if you see any improvements in your marriage - hey, it can't hurt right?!
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